A Thief & A Casualty?!

This is a story about learning to protect yourself.

This certain guy came into where i work. He kinda started an argue with 1 of my staff. They are both male, though this guy is obviously into the same sex.

OK. before he came in, I've had an idea of what happened. My staff was being "peep" from far during his business in the toilet. It was this guy who set his eyes on him. Then when he passed by my outlet, my staff couldn't hold himself any longer & shouted at him: Apa you pandang pandang ni?

So they fought when I wasn't around. Thus this guy returned after a while, perhaps he feels angry being shouted at.

Basically I don't know the exact scenario. In the toilet or in the outlet. So they fight. I was caught in between & listen.

The sissy guy say:

1. Where he wanna set his eyes is his freedom. He can look at anything he like.

2. If my staff thinks it is no longer safe to pee using toilet bowl, he might use the toilet rooms. "To protect himself."

3. He was standing far from my staff. He couldn't see anything from that distance, some more he's facing his back.

4. He didn't approached him near. So there's no proof or something that in ways harassed my staff.

5. My staff said he sort of licked his lips in seductive form when facing him. He claimed that he may do that whenever his lips are dry...

6. HE SAID: HE DOESN'T WANT ANYTHING. HE JUST WANT TO MAKE IT CLEAR TO MY STAFF, HOW TO PROTECT HIMSELF IN THE WORLD WE ARE LIVING IN. IT'S RUDE TO SHOUT AT PEOPLE WHEN WE ARE ON DUTY. THERE'S SO MANY TYPE OF PEOPLE, HE SHOULD BE EDUCATED BY ME HOW TO BEHAVE & BE POLITE!

This is what I told him. Even eyesight can be harassment. I think he doesn't know.

This is what I told my staff. You are taught by a thief not to show your "asset" openly. haha.

离别的时节。

MJ的死，我并没有像很多很多人那样，觉得悲哀。某种程度上，我觉得一个人的人格和作品一样重要。他可以是个走错方向的巨星，也可算是个唱歌跳舞很棒的怪胎。

简单地说，我没有很喜欢他。

再来，是赵明福。有人说那是：black murder under bright lights。我想是的。来龙去脉，我至今还不清楚。所以不想多说，暗地里为他祷告便好。

毕竟，我政治冷感，也坦白说，我是时事白痴。

那天，终于看了《入殓师》。

死，其实再平常不过，那是每个人哪天将要面对的一刻。讽刺的是，我们往往天真以为，我还有很长的日子可以活，可以挥霍。哪天面对分离，活着时的纷争，瞬间瓦解，却显得手足无措。

像电影中说的：人生最后买的一件物品，是由别人来决定的。

我确定，再看一遍，眼泪肯定掉下来。


不明白，这是个什么季节，为何“死”离不开报头，避不过人人谈吐间的空气?

Yasmin Ahmad。我错过了Sepet，赶上了Talentime，却再也看不着她往后的作品。我想，就连她自己，也出乎意料吧。

天，渐渐也灰了。

我怕了，怕误了些什么，以后空留遗憾。可怕的不是死亡，而是惊觉人生无常的那一刻，叫人觉得心寒。所以，我想说的，我不隐瞒，生怕以后再也没有说出口。我能做的，我想，你们该感受到了。我就不想，哪天，大家面对离别的当儿，还得承担遗憾的苦楚。

你们都还好吧? 我回来了。